Your Last Chance To Save Your Marriage
First and foremost, every husband and wife should see himself and herself as the problem and also the solution to their marital issues. In other words, you, yes you are the reason why you are still having problems in your marriage and not your partner. Now, do you also know that you again are the only one who can fix your marital issues and not marriage counselors and other advice givers? In fact, what if I told you marriage counselors and their same old modus operandi is a bad idea and that you are just wasting your time and resources attending sessions with them?
This, it should be pointed out, is not to attack marriage counselors’ method of operation or put them out of business. But sometimes, we need to call a spade by its name, not minding whose ox is gored. Marriage counselors and their same old marriage counseling strategies are the reason for this discourse.
Have you ever seen a therapist or are you seeing one already? If your answer is in the affirmative, then you should be familiar with their same old marriage counseling which is more or less as follows:
First, they do what is called building relationships with the client by asking couples to narrate the history of their relationship and their experiences in their marriage.
But isn’t their relationship the reason why they are there in the first place?
Secondly, after listening to the couples’ experiences, most therapists then follow the lead of the couple and take it from there. One wonders how that is supposed to help when couples have been over the same things for years and no solution in sight. Most couples already have their backs not only to the wall but into the wall and therefore have nothing else to talk about other than that “this marriage sucks and it’s the other person’s fault”
Thirdly, it is no gainsaying the fact that this same old marriage counseling is expensive and complicated. The amount charged depends on where you live and most therapists run their sessions in a year. And despite all these, you could still be looking at divorce.
Also, same old marriage counseling can be time consuming. Imagine you having to meet the therapist’s evening schedule. And if you happen to have kids, then you’ll have to work out who’ll take care of them while you are gone for the session. By the time you are back home, all sorts of problems might have cropped up in your absence.
Finally, same old marriage counseling never seems to end. It goes on and on until therapy clients decide not to attend sessions anymore, perhaps after discovering they’ve merely been wasting their time and their sessions have not produced results.
But there is a much easier and more effective way to save a marriage called “Easy marriage counseling” This, it should be pointed out immediately, is not a watered down version of the same old marriage counseling.
This is a six months course with weekly lessons delivered directly to you in a short video and some text. The easy marriage counseling (EMC for short) is designed with your convenience and comfort in mind. The lessons take 30 to 40 minutes and you do them at your own time. You don’t even have to drag your unwilling spouse to any therapist’s office and it is guaranteed to change your relationship in 48hrs from the time you sign up.
Through the easy marriage counseling, you will learn the following and many more:
Why there is a disconnect between what you dream t of having in your marriage and what you actually have.
How friends are a resource to you and when friends should never be consulted.
How to get out harmful beliefs about marriage.
Why passion sometimes fade and how to bring it back to forever.
How to keep your individuality and still be in love.
How to have great sex throughout your marriage.
So if you have tried everything to have a better marriage to no avail, now you know why it didn’t work. Now you know who to blame. Why don’t you try out the easy marriage counseling?
ayo ajetunmobi, http://www.datingandmaritalissues.com
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